5 Steps for Creating A Tranquil Birth Environment

By youronebirth

Imagine you go to a spa for some relaxation and all the lights are on, the music is booming, people are talking loudly, the air is a bit chilly, and you are not given privacy while getting undressed and onto the massage table. Yikes! That doesn’t sound relaxing at all.

Now imagine you are going for a relaxing day at the spa where the lights are dim, soft music is playing in the background, everyone is talking in a whisper, scents of lavender or eucalyptus permeate the air, and you are given the time to go slow, enjoying tranquility and privacy. Being in this type of setting allows the stress to melt away, your muscles to release, and for you to become fully relaxed. This is exactly the type of environment that is conducive for birthing your baby. Whether you’ve decided to birth your baby at home, in a birth center or in a hospital keeping your surroundings calm and quiet is key to helping you remain relaxed throughout labor and for your baby to feel safe. You’ve created such an incredible home for your baby to grow in, now it’s time to encourage that little one to come out.

1. See — Turn off or dim the lights

This is the first step in creating an intimate private space.  If you’re giving birth at home you have a lot of options for keeping lighting to a minimum. A fireplace, candles, tea lights, or simply leaving all the lights off are just a few things you can do. If you’re in a hospital you can turn on the bathroom light and leave the door cracked, keep most of the lights off except one, draw the curtains, and/or, my favorite, bring in battery operated candles to really set the mood. Laboring in a dark, or with a soft glow of light will help you to feel safe and relaxed. If there is a reason lights need to be on wearing an eye mask, like the Bucky 40 Blinks, will keep you in that focused space. People also tend to talk more quietly in a darker room…which leads us to the next step.

2. Hear — Turn off the talking and turn on the music

It’s really hard to stay focused on relaxing when people are chatting and phones are ringing. A great way to encourage people to talk quietly (or not at all) is to turn on soft music. I love Pandora’s Liquid Mind station (just make sure not to use the free version of Pandora for labor…nothing like a car commercial to interrupt your labor). It really sets that spa like mood. If people still aren’t getting the hint, have your birth partner or doula ask them to step outside or into the hallway to finish their conversation.

3. Touch — One minute your cold, the next minute your hot

Most likely you’re going to switch from hot to cold, and cold to hot a few times throughout labor. In the beginning stages of labor keep things warm. Being cold makes your muscles contract and you want them to release and open. At home you can control the temperature quite easily, but if you’re in a birth center or hospital you might not have access to the thermostat. Bring a warm robe and socks/slippers with you. As your body continues to work you’ll probably start stripping off the layers and enjoy a cool rag around your neck or forehead.

4. Taste — Eat & Drink

Eating and drinking in labor not only helps to keep your energy up, but it can also help create oxytocin. I’m a big foodie….certain meals have been known to make me cry (out of pure joy). In early stages of labor food can be a comfort. Eat your favorite foods! Good proteins, fats, and carbs are going to be your best friend. I once heard that in France women were encouraged to eat chocolate at the start of labor (get that oxytocin going) and drank a glass of champagne once their baby was born (the bubbles were said to help the uterus to contract after labor). I cannot recall where I heard this information, but I think it’s some of the best advice.

5. Smell — One of our most powerful senses

Essential oils are incredible for a laboring mom. Because a mom’s sense of smell is so strong in labor and we don’t know when she will get tired of a certain scent, I hesitate to apply it to her skin. However, I’ve found it so useful to diffuse a scent in the air or simply leave the cap off. Lavender (relaxation), peppermint (nausea), and grapefruit (energy) are some of my go to labor oils. Bring your own pillow or blanket if you’re giving birth at a hospital or birth center. The familiar smells will make you feel more at home. If you’re partner can’t be at the birth bring one of their worn shirts with you, or a scent they wear.

All of these things are important to make you feel safe, secure, and relaxed.

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